Should You Build a SHTF Team or Go It Alone?

So I was going through my facebook and google+ pages today when an old Army buddy of mine called, whom I haven’t spoken with since before Afghanistan. Mikey had been reading through my posts for the past while and was interested in a lot of the things I had to say on my site. This surprised me a bit because I didn’t know Mikey could read.

We got around to talking about quite a few things about prepping. Mikey likes to talk so he’s great for ideas. Plus, he’s got a lot more tactical training and experience than I do, and he’s fun to be around, so he’s on my list of people I’d let on my bug-out island if SHTF.

We got on the subject of my ‘Why a .22 may be the best home defense weapon’ article, which led to how he used to think the biggest, fastest bullet was the best but had his mind changed by a SWAT instructor friend of ours, which led to teaching people how to shoot what they’re comfortable, which led to parallels with preppers usually thinking a HMMWV or somesuch nonsense is the best SHTF vehicle, which led to over-prepping and how people get so worked up with buying thousands of rounds of ammo but don’t have 5 gallons of water, which led to the difficulty in defending non-discreet or very effective preps, which led to the subject of working with others. Whew! There were several other subjects we talked about but they don’t have anything to do with this article. Funny how a conversation can take weird turns dozends of times when you’re comfortable with whom you’re talking.

Prepping is planning. If you’re planning what to do if you find yourself in a SHTF or WROL (Without Rule of Law) scenario, you have to consider security as one of the pillars of your bug in or bugout planning. I’ve had people ask how a family of four can adequately defend themselves against gangs or organized bands of looters like the ones experienced after hurricane Katrina.

As Mikey agreed, the plain and simple fact is that they can’t. It doesn’t matter if you’re defending yourself with a shotgun or a bazooka, one or two people just aren’t going to be able to hold off 20 armed guys who are determined to get what you have in any normal situation. I’d be hard pressed to think of a scenario that would be an exception but it would probably involve a castle and an island. And a dragon.

So, is it all a waste of time to prep? Of course not. You just have to be smart about it. Proper OPSEC (Operations Security) before and during an emergency or TEOTWAWKI (The End Of The World As We Know It) event is critical because if the gangs don’t think you have anything worth risking their lives or time with, then you probably won’t have to deal with them. Of course, OPSEC is very difficult to do right, and you have to balance it with other things like having better equipment and having a life.

OPSEC is extremely important, but you don’t have to be invisible and xenophobic either. If you’re looking to survive a long-term dystopian environment, the only real way to do it is to band together – seriously, you do. Of course, this is also easier said than done. For one thing, it’s difficult to recruit people to work together if you don’t tell anyone about your plans, which is a fundamental part of OPSEC. More about that later.

Humans started banding together to survive millions of years ago. They did this for one thing: because there’s safety in numbers. If you live by yourself, you can’t collect food, improve your fighting position, patrol the area, chop wood, filter water, and be on all sides of your property – all at once. Plus, you have to devote a large amount of your day to sleeping each night. And besides, who are you gonna bitch to about your day if you’re all alone?

If you plan on bugging out to a remote location somewhere after SHTF, you have to understand that you won’t be the only one who’s gonna have the same idea. Granted, preppers (even if they don’t know they’re preppers) will be out there first but others will soon start leaving the metropolitan centers for the hills to not only get away from any gangs but also for food and water, which would be in short supply if the power goes out. If you have a nice little homestead set up with solar power, water, food stores, guns and ammo – a prepper’s paradise – you’re gonna be a target if anyone runs across your land. Taking a cabin from two people wouldn’t require a tactical genius.

Even a small group of 12 has a HUGE advantage to defending an area and continuing on with other operations at the same time. With an adequate number of personnel, not only can you have a rotation of assignments to support 24 hour operations, you can afford people to specialize in certain tasks. This specialization increases the efficiency of the group overall (synergy) and was one of the largest reasons why we developed into a society. If you have enough people, you could, for example, have a fishing guy, a tactical guy and a repair guy. As these guys do their job(s) day-to-day, they’ll get better and better at it. With enough people, you could more easily support your basic needs and then you could devote some time to actually enjoying life and even relaxing on occasion.

The problem is that if you wait until a large-scale catastrophic event to start recruiting, you’ll be at a serious disadvantage. Whether you find yourself stuck in the middle of a city full of gangs, or wandering through the forest because your bugout vehicle broke down 10 miles into your 300-mile bugout route, or you just got evicted from your bugout location because 9 armed guys stormed in your back door while you were defending the front and your wife was in the back room protecting the kids, at some point you have to consider that you’ll need to work with others. At this point, it’s a bit late. Starting this process now will allow you to vet your prospective comrades and sidestep those who you don’t trust or who’d be more of a burden than a blessing.

You need to also be careful with whom you’re telling about your prepping and especially whom you trust to have access to your plans, your supplies and your family. Learn how to read people, get out amongst others, and learn about your neighbors and others. Starting now will afford you the best chance to make good decisions about which people will be best suited for your group and give you the best chance to build a solid team – and give you enough time to build that team.

What you need to do is start looking at what kind of people you’d need in whatever situation you’re planning for and figure out how to meet those people and work together. Each person in your group is one more that you have to feed, shelter and protect so you should try to be picky with whom you trust if you have the opportunity to do so. You may be stuck with family but you should try to choose the rest.

So let’s look first at some traits you need to consider.


A good survivor is good at a lot of things and is very adaptable but you can’t know or have everything. Your team should have a good balance, not only in personalities but you should also have people with some specialized knowledge if you want to give your group the best chance. Here are some specialized skills you should be looking for as well as developing on your own:

  • Security – obviously, those with Army and Marine experience will be a great asset in the security part because even if they weren’t infantry, they’re all trained in the basics of combat. Other services have some training but won’t typically be as well-trained, with some exceptions.
    • Some Air Force jobs such as Forward Air Controllers, Special Operations Weathermen and Para-rescue provide a LOT of tactical training and these guys have seen a lot of time behind a weapon. The Navy also has a few jobs (SEALS anyone?) that will be what to look for. Just keep in mind that just because someone was in the military does NOT mean that they have any idea how to shoot, let alone defend a facility.
    • Military experience is not the only thing to look for in someone who could help with security. Police officers are not only trained with weapons and close-quarter fighting, they’re very security-consciousMartial arts instructors can also be extremely helpful but just keep in mind that you’re not going to train a 110-pound girl to be able to win a fight against a 200-pound bad guy in a short amount of time.
    • Those with martial arts experience or MMA have a definite advantage over those who don’t, but training doesn’t always equate to effectiveness and doesn’t always compensate for someone else’s advantages in size, strength or speed.
  • Medical – This is a key skill that you should be looking for. A lot of military people are trained in first aid so that’s helpful but a Registered Nurse, EMT, Doctor, veterinarian, or even a pharmacist could easily save your life someday.
  • Mechanical – Those with mechanical abilities, especially those who are good at limping things home with scraps they find on the side of the road, are going to be very helpful in a long-term situation. Mechanical ability is something you can learn but it’s largely something you’re born with. A lot of those people have gone into jobs that are obvious such as garage mechanic but keep an open mind for people such as mechanical engineers or electricians. These guys will be able to adapt to your situation and not only fix things that break, they can improve or invent new things such as power generators and water filtration systems. A good hillbilly engineer with a prepping background is what you need.
  • Technical – Technical skills kind of fall into mechanical but they can be a little different. Someone who’s good at Ham Radio will usually have electronic skills and can not only help with communications, they may be able to fix electronics such as in your vehicle or generator. Someone who can fabricate things through welding or wood/cement building also falls into this category.
  • Survival – Obviously, having Les Stroud in your group would be a huge help so people with outdoor skills from hunting, military ops or training would come in handy. Consider also though that you may find yourself having to survive in a more urban environment so people with street smarts may really be the ones you’d need in certain cases.

Trustworthiness and Loyalty

These are critical. I’d rather take someone I trust who has no skills and is ready to learn than someone I don’t trust who’s advanced. Your ethics can be very situationally-dependant so having people with a good moral compass will be more likely keep your best interest at heart if you’re a part of their group. Since you’re looking at doing this now, you should absolutely, positively do some kind of background checks on anyone before you start trusting them with the lives of your family and of your secrets.

View of Life

Just as with most relationships, what things you feel are important (or not important), and what side you’re on with controversial subjects should be compatible with others in your group. I wouldn’t do so well with a group of pacifists, nor would I do well in a group of ultra-religious people. Our viewpoints are just too divergent and too many problems would come up. You need to find people who think like you do.


Attitude is also important. Most of survival is mental so having someone around who is a downer can actually be fatal in some circumstances. People who are realistically optimistic are good for the group. People like Mikey who can make people laugh are also good.


There are two things to consider with motivation. The first is about what they value and will risk their life for. Someone who’s only out for #1 could be very bad, and even if they don’t downright betray you, they may be such a draw on the group that they aren’t worth the investment. The second is just basic everyday motivation – laziness. If a person isn’t gonna pull their weight, you’re gonna have to pull it for them. Not only is this bad for morale, it can put your whole operation in jeopardy.

So how do you start? Getting together with like-minded people is easier than ever before with the advent of the Internet. There are countless survival forums out there that you can start interacting with people to get to know them as you learn and even meetup groups in your area that you can join online.

You should also start doing some learning about Small Group Dynamics. There are certain dynamics that a group will typically go through when facing an obstacle (or a daily crapload of obstacles) that can be handled well or poorly depending on the leadership of the group. Even if you’re not the leader, you’d better damn well be an advisor. A good team can make up for a lack of skills, planning or equipment.

As I’ve mentioned, neighbors are important because they are most likely going to be your first line of defense (or first people you have to defend yourself from) if SHTF. If you don’t know your neighbors – start the process now. I hang out with several of my neighbors at least one or two weekends per month. You can learn a lot about a person through elicitating information and reading them. Once you get to know someone and believe they’re to be trusted, you can start to approach prepping topics or what to do in an emergency. Even if you’re not planning on bringing in your neighbors into your SHTF team, you need to start thinking about what you’d do if you had a natural disaster in your area, and hopefully recruit them to work together in planning your neighborhood’s security plan.

Don’t just stop at your neighbors -go out and talk to people and get to know them. Once you’ve started to get to know people, you can use those people to meet others. Even a con artist can be found out if you speak with other people because they’ve either already conned others or other people just don’t trust them so even if they don’t end up in your group, they might incidentally help you choose others. You really don’t know someone until your life is on the line but you don’t need to surround yourself with people who aren’t good to start off with. In any case, as you bring people deeper into your circle, trust – but verify.

Don’t forget that if you’ll be working with others, even just your immediate family, you need a good commo plan. You never know where you’ll be, let alone where each of your other team members (or family members) will be if an emergency hits and you can’t rely on cell phone service if it’s a regional thing. I’d suggest that every member of your team not only get your ham radio license and a ham radio for each family, but get out there and actually use them. You’re not gonna pick it up in a day and just like developing relationships, you should be starting now so you’re ready when SHTF.

So, if you want the best chance of survival, you need to bring in other people and stop thinking that you’ll just fend off the world with your AK-47. There are force multipliers out there that I’ll go over in the future that will help you be as effective as a larger group, but even those are more effective if you have a small group of people instead of just a few. Start looking at realistic scenarios and how you’re planning on dealing with them currently, and then picture what you could do with a few experienced people on your side. You’ll quickly see the advantages.

If you still want to do the lone wolf thing and go it alone, feel free. I’m sure someone will thank you for all the stuff in your cabin one day.

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